75+ Goodnight Messages For Her (That you can copy/paste)

Sending goodnight notes while online dating can be a simple way grow the connection between you and your match. After a full day of conversations, you always want to end it on a strong note with her. Setting up the next day to continue growing the connection.

Send goodnight messages to:

• Keep her thinking about you - A goodnight text makes sure you’re on her mind before she falls asleep.
• Show you care - It’s a sweet way to show her you’re thinking about her at the end of the day.
• Be consistent - Sending goodnight texts shows that you’re reliable and serious about her.
• Create a special routine - Make it a nightly thing that she looks forward to, adding a touch of intimacy.
• Offer comfort - If she’s had a rough day, your message can bring her some comfort and let her know you’re there for her.
• Leave a lasting impression - A thoughtful message will leave her thinking fondly of you as she drifts off to sleep.
• Be playful and flirty - It’s a chance to be fun and flirty, keeping the excitement in your relationship.
  

What NOT to send her:

• Overly needy messages - Avoid messages that make you seem desperate or clingy, like “Please text me back, I can’t sleep without hearing from you.”
• Too intense or forward - Don’t send messages that are too intense too early, like “I’m dreaming of our future together every night.”
• Jealous or insecure texts - Avoid anything that hints at jealousy or insecurity, like “Hope you’re not talking to anyone else right now.”
• Negative or depressing messages: Stay away from sending messages that are negative or bring down the mood, like “I hate this day, nothing is going right.”
• Overly sexual messages - Don’t send anything too sexual or suggestive, especially if you’re still getting to know each other.

You Can Personalize These Messages Too

Instead of using babe, beautiful, cutie, etc., use her name when it makes sense to.
Women love to read their name in messages from their crush.
Assures her that the message is meant for her and not another girl you're talking up.

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75+ Goodnight Message For Her – And When To Use Them

Romantic & Sweet Messages

These messages you copy and paste when you both know your connection is going somewhere.

1. “Goodnight, gorgeous. Can’t wait to dream about you.”

2. “Sweet dreams, [ her name/ cute nickname ]. You’re my favorite notification.”

3. “Night, babe. You’re the best part of my day.”

4. “Sleep tight, beautiful. You’re my happy place.”

5. “Dream of me, and I’ll dream of you.”

6. “Goodnight, beautiful. You light up my world.”

7. “Sweet dreams, cutie. You make my heart smile.”

8. “Night, love. You’re the peanut butter to my jelly.”

9. “Rest up, babe. Can’t wait to see your smile tomorrow.”

10. “Goodnight, love. You’re my favorite adventure.”

Humorous & Light Hearted Messages

Keeping it funny lets her know that time spent together will always be memorable.

“If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.” ―Marilyn Monroe

11. “Sleep well, and may your TikTok feed be full of puppies.”

12. “Goodnight, love. Don’t stay up too late scrolling!”

13. “Dream sweet, don’t let the bedbugs bite… or the FOMO.”

14. “Night, babe. Dream of us… but with pizza.”

15. “Sleep tight. May your dreams be better than that last season of your fave show.”

16. “Goodnight! Don’t let those 3 AM thoughts get too weird.”

17. “Rest easy. We’ll slay tomorrow like it’s a video game.”

18. “Night, love. May your dreams be as epic as a Marvel movie.”

19. “Sleep well, babe. Don’t worry, I won’t binge-watch without you.”

20. “Goodnight! Dream of me like you dream of winning the lottery.”

Caring & Concerned Messages

These type of messages assure her that you're reliable and will be there for her.

21. “Rest up, love. You deserve all the peace after today.”

22. “Goodnight, babe. I’m always here if you need me.”

23. “Sleep well, beautiful. You’ve got this!”

24. “Rest easy, love. Tomorrow’s a new day, and you’ll crush it.”

25. “Night, babe. I’m sending you all the good vibes.”

26. “Goodnight, love. Take care of yourself; you’re important.”

27. “Sleep tight, babe. You’ve got my heart.”

28. “Night, love. Remember, I’m always in your corner.”

29. “Goodnight, beautiful. You’re stronger than you think.”

30. “Rest easy. You’re amazing, and I’m lucky to have you.”

Encouraging & Motivating Messages

To let her know she's supported and encouraged by you.

31. “Goodnight, love. You’re going to be amazing tomorrow, like you always are.”

32. “Rest up, babe. The world needs your magic.”

33. “Sleep tight, cutie. You’ve got this.”

34. “Goodnight, gorgeous. Tomorrow’s a new chance to shine.”

35. “Rest well, babe. You’re capable of incredible things.”

36. “Night, love. You’re unstoppable, even in your sleep.”

37. “Goodnight, babe. The world is better because you’re in it.”

38. “Sleep tight, love. Tomorrow’s a new chapter in our story.”

39. “Goodnight, beautiful. You’re gonna crush it, like always.”

40. “Rest easy, love. The best is yet to come.”

Pop Culture References

Having similar pop culture tastes will make you more likeable.

41. “Night, love. Dream of us like Ross dreams of Rachel.”

42. “Sleep tight, may the force be with you… in your dreams.”

43. “Goodnight, babe. We’re like Jim and Pam, but cuter.”

44. “Rest up, love. Tomorrow we’ll slay like Eleven taking down Demogorgons.”

45. “Goodnight, love. We’re like Monica and Chandler… perfect together.”

46. “Sleep tight, you’re my favorite character in this story.”

47. “Night, babe. You’re the Eleven to my Mike.”

48. “Goodnight, love. We’re like Dobby and socks… meant to be.”

49. “Rest easy, love. We’re like Groot and Rocket, better together.”

50. “Night, babe. We’re like Jake and Amy, perfectly matched.”

51. “Sleep well, love. We’re like Ross and Rachel… but without the breaks.”

52. “Goodnight, love. Dream of us like Harry dreams of Hogwarts.”

53. “Night, babe. We’re like Lorelai and coffee, inseparable.”

54. “Goodnight, love. May your dreams be as legendary as Barney’s stories.”

55. “Rest easy, you’re my Hermione in this adventure.”

56. “Goodnight, love. We’re like April and Andy, quirky and perfect.”

57. “Night, babe. We’re like Jim and Pam, but with better hair.”

58. “Sleep tight, love. We’re like Eleven and Eggos, a perfect match.”

59. “Goodnight, beautiful. You’re my Chandler, and I’ll always be your Monica.”

60. “Rest well, babe. We’re like Jake and Amy, a perfect pair.”

Flirty & Playful Messages

Use these messages to make her blush a bit and smile before she sleeps.

61. “Goodnight, gorgeous. Can’t wait to steal your heart again tomorrow.”

62. “Sleep tight, love. Don’t miss me too much!”

63. “Night, babe. Dream of me, and I’ll dream of you.”

64. “Goodnight, love. I’ll be counting down the hours until I see you again.”

65. “Sleep well, babe. I bet your dreams are as stunning as you are.”

66. “Goodnight, love. Can’t wait to make more memories together.”

67. “Night, gorgeous. You’re my favorite thought before bed.”

68. “Sleep tight, babe. I’ll be dreaming of our next adventure.”

69. “Goodnight, love. You make my dreams sweeter.”

70. “Rest well, beautiful. I’ll be dreaming of you.”

Longer & Detailed Messages

These goodnight messages are when you're 100% sure about her.
Let her know that with some vulnerable detail.

71. “Goodnight, love. As you close your eyes, just know that you’re my person, and I can’t wait for us to spend more time together.”

72. “Sleep well, cutie. Every day with you is a new adventure, and I’m excited for what tomorrow brings.”

73. “Goodnight, beautiful. You’re becoming the highlight of my days. Can’t wait to tell you that again in a few days.”

74. “Rest easy, love. I’m so happy we connected so naturally. I can’t wait for our next date.”

75. “Goodnight, [ her name ] . You make every day better just by being in it.”

76. “Sleep tight, babe. You’re simply amazing, and I’m lucky to have you.”

77. “Goodnight, love. You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I’ll never stop showing you that.”

78. “Rest well, beautiful. You’re my forever person, and I can’t wait to spend every tomorrow with you.”

79. “Goodnight, love. You’ve got my heart, and I’m so thankful for that.”

80. “Sleep well, babe. I’m so lucky to have you in my life.”

Messages to Make Her Group Chat Go ‘Aww’

Use these messages to make her and yourself look good in her friends group chat.
She's definitely sharing all the details with her friends!

81. “Goodnight, love. You’re my favorite person, and I’m so grateful for you.”

82. “Sleep tight, beautiful. I’m lucky to have you.”

83. “Goodnight, babe. I’m so happy we found each other.”

84. “Rest easy, love. You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”

85. “Goodnight, beautiful. I’m so excited for our future together.”

86. “Sleep well, love. You make my world a better place just by being in it.”

87. “Goodnight, babe. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.”

88. “Rest easy, love. You’re my person, now and always.”

89. “Goodnight, gorgeous. I’m so lucky to have you.”

90. “Sleep tight, babe. You’re my everything, and I love you for that.”

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Messages for When You Miss Her

If you really like, you're going to miss her at times. Don't be a bro and hide it.
Use these goodnight messages to let her know.

91. “Goodnight, love. I miss you more than words can say.”

92. “Sleep well, babe. I wish I could be there to hold you.”

93. “Goodnight, beautiful. I miss you so much it hurts.”

94. “Rest easy, love. I can’t wait until we’re together again.”

95. “Goodnight, babe. Being apart from you is the hardest thing I’ve ever done.”

96. “Sleep tight, love. I’m counting down the days until I see you again.”

97. “Goodnight, beautiful. I miss you more with every passing day.”

98. “Rest well, love. I wish I could be there to cuddle you.”

99. “Goodnight, babe. I miss you like crazy.”

100.“Sleep tight, love. I’ll be dreaming of the day we’re together again.”

Conclusion

Goodnight messages are the perfect way to stay on her mind. Setting up the opportunity to connect with her even more.

• You can use these goodnight messages word for word
• You can take the extra step and personalize with her name
• Or personalize with a nickname for her that's jokingly endearing and sweet

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