Horny Girl Guide: 27 Signs + How to Make Her Horny for You

Updated on October 15, 2024

Every girl has her own desires. Some only care about the physical, others about the cerebral, for others still it’s what’s in the heart. For almost all, it will be a combination of those factors, but regardless, finding exactly what will make a girl horny will not be a simple matter.

There are however some general cues you can follow and signs to spot, to tell if a girl is horny or not!

In this article, we’ll provide you with everything you need to know about what makes a woman horny, what the signs are that she is horny, and more.

Horny Girls Overview

To get a girl horny, you will have to consider a lot of factors. The more you know about the girl, the more likely you will be able to get her horny.

But, there are some general “rules” that apply to most women. They are looking for someone to make them feel wanted, someone who knows how to flirt and say the right things, and, most importantly, how to build up the foreplay.

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What Makes a Woman Horny?

So, what exactly does make a woman horny? Is it your looks, your texts, the way you dress, the way you think, or your sexual performance?

Well, it’s really a combination of everything! Let’s have a look at some of the most important factors.

Women seek to feel wanted.
They expect you to flirt and tease. Flirting is a necessary part of the process when trying to make her horny. Tease her to build up that sexual tension between you two.

She Needs To Feel Wanted

Unlike men, most women need a bit more romantic attention to get them going. That is why it’s so important to be as attentive as possible. Show your appreciation for her beauty and her curves. Express how much you want her romantically, but also sexually. Her thinking about the way you will treat her in and out of bed will surely make her horny.

She Expects You To Flirt

Flirting is one of the most powerful tools when it comes to making girls horny. Whether you’re meeting in person, or just texting, you’ll want to flirt as much as you can.

Compliment her style, her outfits, her smile, her looks, and even her body. Generally, you want to show her you’re obsessed with her, and that you’re not playing around. You want to jump into the action, and she does too, but she probably won’t be as direct.

Your Foreplay Is The Deciding Factor

Your foreplay is the final push when you want to get a girl horny. If you’re at the bar or in the club, you can start with short and small touches. This lets her know you are interested, and want to take things to the next level. If she is interested, she will reciprocate. From there you can build to a fun night.

If you’re trying to build up to the main thing through texting, you can heat things up by mentioning what you want to do if the two of you were alone and intimate. Get her excited about what comes next time you meet up. It’s up to you how dirty you want to make your lines.

Here are some dirty lines you can use to get her horny: 221 Dirty Pick Up Lines You Need to Know

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What Are Signs That a Girl is Horny?

So, you’ve utilized all of the tools to try and get a girl horny, but you’re not left wondering whether she is horny or not.

Fortunately, there are some signs you can be on the lookout for that can tell you that.

Here are the most common ones:

1. Constantly Glancing At Your Eyes

Girls usually aren’t too direct (at first), so if she’s horny, you’ll notice her glancing at your eyes very often.

2. Often Smiling At You

If those glances are followed by a smile or a naughty smirk, you can be sure that she’s getting very into you and horny as well.

3. Laughing At All Your Jokes

Once she starts laughing hysterically at most of your teases or jokes, that’s a clear sign that she feels more and more comfortable around you. And the more comfortable she is, the more likely she will start getting horny.

4. She’s Getting Flirty

It’s often expected from men to be the ones flirting and complimenting, but if she takes over for a while to flirt with you, you’re on a good path!

5. She Isn’t Looking Away

We mentioned that girls avoid being too direct, so they’ll act shy and just glance at you. But, once she gets horny and resolved that she wants you, she’ll stare at you without even trying to look away.

If you both lock eyes for more than 2 or 3 seconds, you’ll know what’s up.

6. She’s Turned Towards You

Did her body direction suddenly shift from one side towards you? If her body isn’t turning away, that’s a clear sign that she is very interested in you and that she might be horny.

7. Showing Off Her Body

If she knows you want her then she’ll have a great time showing off what she has to offer to you. She’ll flaunt her curves, twirl, dance in front of you, etc. Anything to get your attention to the right places.

8. She Comes In Closer

Another clear sign that a girl might be getting hornier is if she’s suddenly getting closer. This means she’s getting horny. At that moment, you can also start slowly touching and brushing against her to further stoke the fire.

9. She’s Getting Very Touchy-Feely

Another green flag that she’s getting horny is if she’s utilizing that same technique of brushing against you or giving you slow touches.

10. Licking Her Lips

Lip licking seems to be an involuntary sign in both men and women that they’re aroused.

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11. She’s Checking You Out From Top To Bottom

A common sign women give when they’re horny is when they start checking you out from top to bottom. She’ll look at you up and down letting you know she wants what she’s looking at.

12. Her Friends Know About You

If she mentions that she talks to her friends about you, her friends start texting you, or if you’re out with them as well, they’ll be very interested in you.

This is a clear sign that she’s horny for you and shared that with her friends. Expect questions like: “Do you find [girl’s name] hot?”

13. She’s Constantly Looking At Your Lips

Paired with the lip licking, you may also notice that she’s frequently glancing at your lips. She’s getting horny and she’s waiting for that kiss you’ve been building up to.

14. She Put On Her Sexiest Outfit

Is she wearing a revealing outfit for your date? Then she was probably already horny at home and wanted to reel you in with her sexiest outfit.

15. She’s Teasing You Through Text

If you still haven’t been on a date and she starts alluding to your sexual tension through text, she’s probably horny. If she’s a tease, there is no question about it!

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16. She’s Sending Spicy Emojis

Is she throwing around the devil 😈 or 🍆 emoji while talking to you? Then she’s probably letting you know she’s excited.

17. She’s Sending Spicy Photos

This might be the most obvious sign, but if she’s blowing up your DMs with some spicy and very suggestive photos then you’ve definitely gotten her horny.

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18. The Hugs Last Much Longer Than Usually

If the hugs between you two suspiciously get considerably longer than previously, she might be looking for something a lot more than just hugs.

19. She Pulls You In Close When Kissing

If you’re already at the kissing stage and you notice her pulling you in then she probably wants you to feel her body against yours. She’s horny and you’ll know it.

20. The Kissing Is Very Passionate

Did your makeout sessions suddenly become a lot more passionate and you both end breathless? That’s a clear sign that she’s bored of the kissing and wants the real deal!

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21. She Gets Kinkier

If she often starts talking about sex or other kinky stuff then she’s probably horny and needs a man to let off some steam.

22. Her Voice Changed

You might notice a slight change in voice when trying to get her horny. She’ll lower her voice and talk slower. That’s a common sign of horniness in women!

23. She Wants To See Your Place

When she talks about wanting to see your place, the reality is that she’s more interested in what she’ll experience in your bed rather than actually checking out your home.

24. She Invite You To Netflix And Chill

We all know Netflix and chill isn’t actually about watching the latest movie. It’s about what you’ve been building up to this whole time! She’s horny and it’s time to do something about it, so she’s taking the next step.

25. She’s Wearing “Something Special” For You

If she texts you that she’ll be wearing something special for you for the date, she’s probably talking about what’s going to be under her outfit!

26. She Wants To Get Drunk With You

We all know just how much alcohol gets people relaxed and not the best decision-makers. But, it also makes people horny. So, she wants to get you going and wants that bad decision

27. She Tells You

No clearer sign that she’s horny if she straight-up tells you through text or in person! And the right woman for you might be the one who is more forward like this.

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How Can You Make a Lady Horny?

Often, the same factors apply to both girls and ladies when trying to make them horny. However, some ladies prefer when men act like gentlemen and don’t try to rush things. Ladies can get horny with romantic gestures rather than physical touch.

If you want to read more about this topic, it's best to check out our guide on 'How to Make Her Horny for Me.'

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Conclusion

So, you know every woman’s secret when it comes to their horniness, and you should be able to spot exactly how horny a girl is when looking for these signs we mentioned above.

And, if you’re struggling with finding the right lines to get girls horny, consider checking out our blog or our Chat Assistant service to provide you with the right response to a horny message.

You can also check out our AI Dating Assistant which is even more effective at making things easier when chatting with girls.

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FAQs

When are women horniest?

Women are usually horniest during or just before their ovulation. Additionally, they usually prefer having sex at night rather than during the day. So, if you’re trying to get a girl horny, it’s probably most effective to do it after dark.

How to spot a horny woman on a dating app?

You can spot a horny woman on dating apps if she’s very flirty and talks kinky from the start. She probably wants to skip straight to the point.

Another sign that a woman is horny is if she’s posting spicy emojis like 🍆😈🥵 on her profile bio.

How do I know if the girl I’m chatting with is horny?

If you notice she’s getting a lot more responsive with her replies, starts sending selfies, and laughs at all of your jokes, she’s probably into you and getting horny.

Other more apparent signs that a girl is horny is if she invites you over, wants to come over, or if she starts sending suggestive pics.