120 Flirty Questions To Ask Your Crush In 2025 (Guys & Girls)

Talking stages are hard- especially if you’re the one who’s trying to make the first move.

It’s just so tough to decide how to steer a conversation to the flirty side- you have to be bold enough to make sure you get the message across, but not so bold that you end up making them uncomfortable.

It’s not an easy balance to strike.

If you don’t know the dating hack of using flirty questions, that is.

Flirty questions are an excellent way to take your talking stages to the next level because they allow you to break the ice, test the waters, build a playful atmosphere, build romantic tension, reveal your interest, and keep the conversation flowing all at the same time.

So if you want to become a great closer, learning the what, when, and how of flirty questions is a must.

In this post, we’re going to share a list of 120 flirty questions you should ask your crush (for both guys and girls), 6 question-based games where you can ask these flirty questions, a secret hack on how you can generate endless ideas for flirty questions without spending a penny, and 10 tips on the dos and don’ts of asking flirty questions.

Excited? So are we! Let’s get started.

60 Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl You Like

A Girl You Met Recently

What does your dream date night look like and are you free this Friday?
What’s your love language?
What’s the cheesiest pickup line you’ve ever heard? And did it work?
Do you think you’re a good kisser?
What would you say are your biggest green and red flags?
What’s one thing about you that I'd find absolutely irresistible?
What was your first impression of me? Besides thinking I’m incredibly good-looking?
What would you say are my biggest green flags?
So, do you always make guys this nervous, or am I just special?
What was the first thing that caught your attention about me?

A Girl You’ve Known For A While

How do you manage to look this good every time I see you?
Do you always look this cute, or just when you’re near me?
So, when are you finally going to admit you have a crush on me?
What are your three favorite things about me?
What’s your idea of a perfect date? Maybe we could try it out sometime?
What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for someone? Just want to take some notes.
Which song reminds you of me?
What’s one question you’re hoping I’ll ask you?
You have 10 minutes alone with me, and I can’t say no. What do you do?
If I kissed you right now, would you kiss me back?

Screenshot of a flirty chat on Tinder — Source

Questions To Ask Over Text

So what do you tell your friends about me?
What are your top three biggest turn-ons?
What’s your definition of sex appeal?
How do you feel about me? (you can only reply using three emojis)
If we were hanging out right now, what would you wanna do?
If we were alone in a room together, what would we do?
Describe your ideal partner, and no, you can’t just say my name.
What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?
So when can I finally see your pretty face in person?
You look so pretty in your pictures- you’re not some guy cat-fishing me, are you?

RECOMMENDED READ: 15 Ways To Keep A Conversation Going Over Text

Questions To Ask In-Person

So what are your plans this weekend? Other than looking absolutely gorgeous.
If someone had a crush on you, how would you want to approach them?
Have you ever dreamt about me?
What’s something about me you find impossible to resist?
What would you say if I told you I can’t stop thinking about you?
How do you feel whenever we’re together? Do you get butterflies as well?
Are you always this charming or should I feel special?
How do you always manage to dress so well?
If you could travel anywhere with me? Where would we go?
What’s one thing about me that makes you smile every time?

RECOMMENDED READ: From App To IRL: Navigating In-Person Dating

Screenshot of someone using a flirty question to start a conversation on Tinder — Source

Questions to ask Your Girlfriend

What excites you the most about our future?
What’s your favorite kind of foreplay?
What are the hottest things you find about me?
When did you first realize you were in love with me?
What’s your favorite sex position?
What’s one thing about me that you find the most attractive? Aside from my looks.
What’s your favorite flower?
Lights on, lights off, or candles?
Do you wanna know what I love most about us dating?
What’s one thing I do that always makes you blush?

Questions to Ask Your Wife

Do you remember the first time I told you I love you?
What's your favorite thing about being married to me?
What’s your ultimate fantasy?
What’s your favorite memory of us?
Shower, pool, or hot tub?
Do you want to know when I realized I wanted to marry you?
What’s sexier? Me cooking, doing the dishes, or vacuuming?
What’s a sex position you’ve always wanted to try?
If we were to try something completely new and exciting in bed, what would be at the top of your list?
Do you wanna know what I love most about you?

Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy You Like

A Guy You Met Recently

What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
What are you doing this Friday night? Other than taking me out on a date.
Do you think we’d have chemistry, or should we test it out?
Are you in love or should I walk past you again?
Have you always been this confident, or am I bringing it out in you?
Are you generally this funny, or are you just trying to impress me?
If you were to plan a dream date for us, where would we go?
Can I guess your favorite feature about me?
So, are you going to ask for my number or what?
So, how does it feel to be the most handsome guy in the room?

A screenshot of someone using a flirty question to start a conversation — Source

A Guy You’ve Known For A While

What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to tell me?
What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to ask about me?
How would you feel about being my plus-one for… ever?
How would you react if I told you you’re exactly my type?
So are you going to man up and ask me out anytime soon?
If I asked you out right now, what would you say?
What’s one thing you think we’d do really well together?
Is it just me or do we look like a great couple in this picture?
Looks aside, what’s the most attractive thing you find about me?
What’s the first thought that crossed your mind when you saw me?

Questions To Ask A Guy Over Text

What’s your type? And how much do I match it?
Do you usually make the first move, or are you waiting for me to do it?
So when can I see that pretty face of yours?
What’s something you’d love to do on our first date, but are too shy to ask?
Do you think I'm good at flirting, or should I keep practicing with you?
What would you say if I asked you to describe our vibe in 3 words?
When was the last time someone on Tinder caught your attention like this?
What’s something you find irresistible about me?
Physical touch or acts of service?
If I asked you to describe me in a sentence, what would you say?

RECOMMENDED READ: The Secret To Starting Text Conversations

Questions To Ask A Guy In-Person

When was the last time you got butterflies like this?
If I told you I was one good pickup line away from being yours, what would you say?
How does it feel knowing you have my full attention?
What are you excited about these days?
Besides being the most good-looking guy in the room, what do you do for a living?
What do you find absolutely irresistible in a girl?
Are you nervous you’ll fumble me?
If you knew I’d say yes, what would you ask me?
So how long did it take you to decide to talk to me today?
Aw, are you getting butterflies in your belly trying to talk to me?

A screenshot of someone using a flirty question — Source

Your Boyfriend

How does it feel to have the hottest girlfriend in the world?
What do you find the most attractive about me?
What made you ask me out?
Could you tell I liked you the whole time?
What do you want to name our future kids?
What’s a non-sexual thing I do that makes your heart skip a beat?
Can I steal your hoodie?
What’s a kink of yours that you’ve always been shy to tell me?
What would you do if I told you I was thinking about kissing you right now?
If we broke up, what would you do to win me back?

Your Husband

What’s the first thing you thought when you saw me on our wedding day?
Do you still get butterflies when you see me dressed up?
Do you ever brag about me to your friends? What do you say?
If we met for the first time today, would you still fall for me?
What’s your favorite memory of me from before we were married?
What’s the most fun we’ve ever had in bed?
How would you feel if I showed up at your work and gave you a kiss?
What’s one thing about me that always turns you on?
How would you feel if I planned a no-rules date night for us?
What’s your favorite way for me to flirt with you?

How To Use YourMove AI’s Free Chat Assistant Tool For Flirty Questions

Our list of 120 flirty questions will keep you sorted for a pretty long time. But if you ever need more ideas, we have a free AI-powered tool that can help!

Our tool will help you come up with flirty conversation openers, respond to your crush’s messages in any style you want (flirty, witty, feisty, etc.,), and yes, even come up with flirty questions that can steer the conversation wherever you want to take it.

Here’s a quick guide on how to use it to generate endless ideas for flirty questions:

Step 1: Head over to our free chat assistant tool or download the YourMove AI app for iOS or Android.

Step 2: Now, choose whether you want ideas to open with a question or respond with a question using the toggle menu on the top. (for this example, we are choosing to “open” with a question)

Step 3: You have two ways of getting our chat assistant tool to generate customized questions for your crush. The first step for both is to turn on “curiosity mode” in the settings as shown in the screenshot below (Don’t forget to click the “save” button to save your settings):

The screen shows how to find the chat assistant tool’s curiosity mode.

The screen shows how to turn on the chat assistant tool’s curiosity mode.

Step 4: The first method you can use to generate questions is to enter any topic in the prompt box. Our chat assistant tool will generate questions for you regarding that topic. For this example, we asked the chat assistant tool to generate questions for “dates.”

A screen of flirty questions generated by YourMove AI’s free chat assistant tool.

Step 5: The other method of generating customized questions is to upload a screenshot of your match’s dating profile. The chat assistant will generate customized flirty questions for your match based on the contents of their profile.

‍Step 6: If you’d like more ideas, simply click the “more ideas” button below the responses generated by our tool!

6 Conversational Games Where You Can Use Flirty Questions

When you’re asking your crush some flirty questions, you need to be slick about it.

Don’t just start throwing questions at them out of the blue- that just comes across as awkward and deliberate.

Instead, you have to strike a good balance between being bold and keeping the flow of the conversation natural.

We’ll share some really clever ways to strike this balance in the next section, but we wanted to take some time to discuss one of these strategies separately; The strategy of playing question-based games with your crush.

Playing question-based games is arguably the best way to ask your crush as many flirty questions as you want without having to worry about bringing them up naturally. Not to mention, they’re a great way to lighten the mood and instantly make things fun and playful.

What question-based games should you play with your crush?

Glad you asked.

Below is a list of six of the most popular ones. They’re not strictly meant to be games for flirting, but you can always turn them into that by asking bold and flirty questions.

Let’s get started.

Two Truths & A Lie

This question-based conversational game works with two people taking turns sharing three statements about themselves: two of which are true, and one which is a lie. The other person must guess which one’s the lie.

How would you turn this into something flirty? Simple. Try making three statements like this:

“I once stayed up all night just thinking about you.”
“I’ve never imagined us kissing in the rain.”
“I think you’re absolutely breathtaking.”

See what we did here?

Would You Rather

“Would you rather” is a really fun conversational game where two people take turns making each other choose between two equally great or terrible hypothetical scenarios. To turn this into a game of flirty questions, try asking questions like these:

Would you rather kiss me in the rain or during a nice candlelit dinner?
Would you rather go out with me or go out with me?
Would you rather kiss me for 10 seconds or cuddle with me for 10 minutes? You can choose both.

Rapid fire

“Rapid fire” works with two people taking turns asking each other a series of quick questions back to back. The person who’s being asked the questions must respond immediately- without thinking.

Rapid fire isn’t just a clever way to ask your crush flirty questions, but also a great way to get to know your crush really fast- essentially a way to do a crash course about their personality.

How do you make this game flirty? Ask questions like these:

What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
What’s your biggest turn-on?
How would you describe me in one word?
Physical touch or acts of service?
Would you rather cuddle or kiss?
What’s your favorite spot to be kissed?
Have you ever had a dream about me?

Pro tip: Not all of the questions you ask in a rapid-fire game need to be flirty- Use some of the questions to get to know your crush, and then use their responses to start a flirty conversation.

Describe Me

“Describe Me” is less of a conversational game and more of a question that has a lot of potential to be used creatively- especially when you’re flirting with someone you like. For example, you can ask your crush to:

Describe you in one sentence.
Describe you in 3 emojis.
Describe you using 3 adjectives.
Describe how they feel about you in one word.

The sky is the limit with this one.

21 Questions

In this conversational game, both players take turns asking each other a series of 21 questions back to back to get to know each other better. It’s a bit similar to how rapid-fire works, except with 21 questions, the answers can be a little more open-ended and they don’t have to be given immediately.

Use the same strategy of asking a mix of flirty questions and questions that reveal your crush’s personality. Stuff like:

Do you like to approach people you like or be approached by them?
What’s your favorite childhood memory?
What were you like as a child?
What’s your ideal first-kiss scenario?
What does your ideal first date look like?

Truth or Dare

Truth or dare works with both players asking each other to choose between telling a truth or completing a dare. If the respondent chooses “truth,” they must answer a personal question honestly. If they opt for a dare, they have to complete a challenge set by the person asking.

Truth or dare isn’t strictly a question-based game- only half of it is.

But that’s what makes it so great; you can go for a mix of flirty questions and bold dares. For example:

If they choose to tell a truth, ask them: “How would you feel if I kissed you right now?”

If they choose to do a dare, ask them: “I dare you to kiss me.”

Warning: Only respond with these if you’re sure they’ll be received positively- do not make your crush uncomfortable. We’ll talk more about this when we discuss the dos and don’ts of asking flirty questions.

The 10 Dos & Don’ts Of Asking Flirty Questions

So far, we’ve covered “what you should ask” and “where you should ask” (the games). Now, let’s talk about the “how” part.

This is exactly what we’re going to do in this section.

The 5 Dos Of Asking Flirty Questions

Let’s start with a list of 5 important dos for when you’re asking your crush flirty questions:

1. Ask questions that start with “why” or “how”

‍Some questions tend to elicit longer responses than others. Questions that start with “why” or “how” are generally pretty good at doing this. For example, questions like “Why do you like me so much?” are likely to get longer and open-ended responses, whereas questions like “Do you ever get tired of being the most attractive person in the room?” are likely to get short, “yes or no” responses.

2. Bring your flirty questions up naturally

‍As powerful a tool as a flirty question can be in your dating arsenal, it can backfire equally strongly if you’re not smooth about it. Remember that there is a fine line between asking a bold question, and asking a question abruptly and out of the blue. The former is what you want; not the latter- you don’t want your crush to look at your question as a desperate attempt to be flirty, or worse, make them uncomfortable.

3. Play question-based games

‍Question-based games (see our 6 recommendations above) are one of the best ways to sneak in all the flirty questions you want to ask your crush without having to wait for the conversation to go to a topic naturally. They’re fun, they keep the mood light, they make things playful, they create romantic tension, and they’re an excellent way to get to know your crush really fast- all wins.

To get the best of these games, choose a mix of flirty questions and questions that reveal something about your crush’s personality. This is a good way to make sure you don’t come across as superficial and to ensure you keep learning more about your crush.

4. Read the room

‍Being bold with your flirty questions will pay off, but crossing boundaries won’t. Know the difference. Before you ask a flirty question, make sure you’re doing your due diligence by reading your crush’s body language. If they seem comfortable and interested, then it’s probably okay for you to try asking flirty questions. If they seem uncomfortable or start shooting your flirty questions down, you should stop asking flirty questions immediately.

If you’re talking to your crush online, carefully assess your crush’s responses to determine how interested they are in talking to you. If all seems fine, go ahead and ask a moderately flirty question. If they respond well, keep going. If not, don’t go further with it.

5. Test the waters

‍Even if your crush’s body language gives you no indication that they’re uncomfortable, it’s a good idea to ease your way into asking flirty questions by starting with ones that aren’t too intense.

For example, try starting with a question like “What’s your go-to comfort food? Maybe we could share it sometime.” If your crush matches your energy with their response, take it a step further and repeat.

Starting with a question as intense as “You have 10 minutes alone with me, and I can’t say no- what would we do?” would probably make your crush extremely uncomfortable.

The 5 Don’ts Of Asking Flirty Questions

1. Avoid questions starting with “Do you”

‍The whole point of asking flirty questions is to hold a flirty conversation with your crush. That’s why, it’s important to ask open-ended questions that elicit long responses instead of closed-ended ones that prevent the conversation from flowing. Typically, questions that start with “do you” elicit shorter responses. You should try avoiding them. A few examples of such “do you” questions include:some text

Do you think I’m pretty?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Do you smile this much around everyone?

We’re not saying you should avoid such questions entirely, we’re saying that if you ever end up using closed-ended questions like these, follow them up with more open-ended questions, so the conversation flows.

2. Don’t be offensive or overly sexual

‍Asking someone a flirty question is one thing, being crude is another. Generally, you should avoid asking overly sexual or offensive questions like:

What’s your favorite sex position?
What would you say if I told you I wanted to kiss you right now?
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve done during sex?

Of course, this rule only applies if you and your crush aren’t close enough to talk about these things. If you are, questions like these should be fine.

3. Don’t ask questions that are too personal

‍It’s really important to factor in how long you’ve known your crush and how close you are with them before deciding to ask them a personal flirty question. If you’re not close enough to ask them something personal, do not ask them about it. Instead, try developing your relationship with them one level at a time, until you’re close enough to have any kind of conversation with them.

4. Don’t disrupt the flow of the conversation

‍Asking your crush flirty questions can make the conversation fun and playful. But just because that happens doesn’t mean you should be throwing questions at your crush left, right, and center. When you’re having a conversation with them, show genuine interest in what they have to say instead of seeming like you’re always waiting for the next opportunity to pop in a flirty question.

5. Don’t turn the conversation into an interview

‍If you find that the strategy of asking flirty questions is turning out pretty successful for you, be careful and avoid the pitfall of overusing them- you don’t want your conversations to turn into interviews or interrogations.

A Summary Of The 10 Dos & Don’ts Of Flirty Questions

Dos

Ask questions that start with “why” or “how”
Play question-based games
Bring your flirty questions up naturally
Read the room
Test the waters

Don’ts

Avoid questions starting with “Do you”
Don’t be offensive or overly sexual
Don’t ask questions that are too personal
Don’t disrupt the flow of the conversation
Don’t turn the conversation into an interview

FAQs About Flirty Questions

What are some examples of flirty questions can I ask a guy I like?

3 examples of flirty questions you can ask a guy you like include:

What’s your love language?
Are you normally this nervous or am I just special?
Are you usually this funny or are you doing it for me?

If you’d like more ideas, scroll up to read our complete list or use YourMove AI’s free chat assistant tool.

Which flirty questions can I ask a girl I like?