120 Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl That Can Make Her Laugh

Updated on October 14, 2024

You’re out on the town and have started talking to a girl, you have her interested, and you maybe even have her number! But, you still feel like you don’t have the right vibe to take it to the next level with them. What does it take to turn the flirting into a fling?

Well, there’s no need to worry, because guys have been struggling with this since the dawn of time. It’s completely normal, and once you learn the right things to say and get the hang of it, flirting with girls will get easier and easier.

To speed up that learning process, we’ve created a list of some of the flirtiest questions to ask a girl that will surely make her laugh.

Let’s check them out!

Does Asking Girls Flirty Questions Really Work?

Without a doubt, yes! So many guys are too reserved when it comes to girls, while girls overall appreciate guys that are forward, honest, and bold. So, even though flirty questions seem “risky”, they actually work. And they are definitely more effective than questions like “What’s your favorite movie?” A flirty question showcases your confidence and your interest in the girl, so don’t shy away from the list of flirty questions we have listed below!

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What Are Some Good Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl?

We’ve split our list of effective flirty questions into several categories. Use the question that best fits your situation.

Let’s get into it!

Someone You Just Met

These questions are perfect for kicking things off with a bit of fun. They can help you stand out and get to know each other beyond the usual small talk.

“What is something you could tell me about yourself that would surprise me?”
“If you could ask me any question you would like, what would it be?”
“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?”
“What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done?”
“Would you ever go on a date with someone you’ve just met?”
“What’s the best pickup line you have ever heard?”
“How would you describe yourself in 5 words?“
“What’s your reaction when a guy starts flirting with you?”
“What is your biggest turn-on with guys?”
“What is your biggest turn-off with guys?”
“Would you mind if I started flirting with you even though we just met?”
“What do you think about the fact that you’re the prettiest girl around here?”
“What is the first thing you noticed about me? I’ll go first, your eyes.”
“How do you feel about first-date kisses?”
“What does it take for someone to get your number? I’ll do anything.”
“What is the single most important thing a guy needs to do, or have, to make you feel comfortable?”
“What do you think is your best feature?”
“Can you describe me in five words? Or yourself?”
“What was your first thought when you saw me?”
“How can you fit me into your plans for this weekend?”

Someone You Know

If you're trying to get closer to someone you already know, these questions can gently nudge things in a more personal direction, hinting you're up for more than just being pals.

“What is your idea of the perfect first date? Do you think I’d be able to do it?”
“Can we skip all the formality so I can just ask you on a date?”
“When are we going on our first date? Your choice of place.”
“Would you say that I am your type?”
“What type of guy are you looking for? I’ll adjust for you, no problem.”
“What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done for a guy?”
“What is the worst date you’ve ever been on?”
“What’s one secret you would like to find out about me?”
“Are you sure it’s legal to look as good as you do?
“Do you always look this pretty?”
“What was your first kiss like?”
“What was your first ever date like? I promise I won’t laugh!”
“What kind of type do you think I am - naughty or nice?”
“Do you prefer naughty or nice guys? I can be both.”
“Have you ever sent a message to the wrong person? How awkward was it?
“What’s the most embarrassing way you’ve hurt yourself?”
“How am I supposed to do any work when a cutie like you is messaging me?”
“Do you prefer to be the flirt-er or the flirt-ee?”
“Who was your first celebrity crush?”
“Ever fallen in love with a movie/TV show character?”

Your Crush

When you're ready to find out if your crush might be crushing back, these are your go-to questions. They're all about opening the door to "what if" with a smile.

“How about dinner at my place as soon as possible?”
“If the perfect romantic movie existed, would we be the main characters in it?”
“Do you have as strong of a crush on me as much as I have on you?”
“What do you think is my best feature?”
“How often do you think about me?”
“Do you think of me as often as I do of you?”
“If we were ever a couple, what would be our relationship’s best trait?”
“If I could steal you for an entire week's getaway, would you come?”
“Is it just me or are we meant to go on a date this weekend?”
“I can’t stop myself from inviting beautiful girls on dates, so, would you go on a date with me?”
“On a scale from one to ten, how much do you want to go on a date with me?”
“On a scale from one to ten, how handsome do you find me?”
“If we went on a date this weekend, how likely is it that it ends with our first kiss?”
“Is it bad that I’m preoccupied thinking about you?”
“How bad is it that I spent more time thinking about you than working?”
“Are you always this good at stealing guys’ hearts?”
“Can you stop running through my mind? It looks exhausting.”
“What’s your favorite cheesy pick up line and can I use it on you?”
“What is your favorite wine bar, and when can we go there?”
“Have you found any red flags with me yet?”

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Your Fling

Keep the fun rolling with questions that keep things spicy and light. They're great for those moments when you want to remind each other just how exciting a casual connection can be.

“Do you believe in love at first sight or should I try wiping your memory?”
“That outfit on your story looks insanely good on you. Can you wear it on our next date?”
“Is it normal that I always have a huge smile on my face when I see you?”
“Our date tonight was awesome, but can we start planning our next one immediately?”
“We just saw each other, I know, but when can I see you again?”
“Is everyone in your family drop-dead gorgeous?”
“How does your friend group feel about you having a boy toy that’s an absolute 10?”
“Do you also wake up looking like a goddess?”
“Would you like to find out what I look like in the mornings?”
“Am I dreaming or am I really having a fling with the hottest girl alive?”
“This weekend, my place or your place?”
“Are you equally hot without your clothes off?”
“How about we skip this week’s gym days and do some workouts at my place?”
“Good morning! Was I in your dream last night?”
“Who do you have a huge crush on right now, and why is it me?”
“I’ve been at the gym every day this week, so how good are you at massages?”
“Do you also think this weekend is perfect for you to come over and binge-watch Netflix?”
“What is your weirdest fetish?”
“Can I ramp up my flirting to the next level or would it be too much?”
“Why do you always look at me like you’re undressing me with your eyes?”

Your Girlfriend

Deepen your bond with questions that explore your relationship further, keeping the spark going and showing you care about the little things as much as the big moments.

“Can you show me your gym booty progress?”
“When can we schedule our next cardio for this week?”
“What’s the most romantic thing I’ve done for you?”
“What’s the sexiest thing about me?”
“What do you think I find most attractive on your body?”
“What’s the one thing (in and outside of bed) you’ve always wanted to try with me?”
“Are you interested in a romantic dinner cooked by yours truly?”
“I never knew girls could look perfect even right after waking up.”
“Do you mind when I’m flirting with you even while you are at work?”
“Is there ever a bad time for our flirting?”

“Can we go on a date tonight with you wearing that sexy dress?”
“Is there anyone that’s more handsome than your boyfriend, and why not?”
“How did I manage to catch a girl this cute?”
“I hope you don’t mind me thinking about you this entire day?”
“Had a dream about you - when are you coming over to turn this dream into a reality?”
“Did you know you’re the cutest thing I’ve ever seen?”
“Are you on the menu for tonight?”
“Do you think it’s normal that I can’t stop smiling when thinking about you?”
“Are you still thinking about our kiss last night?”
“How long do I have to wait for you to invite me into your bed again?”

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Your Wife

Celebrate your love in fun ways with questions that remind you both why you said "I do." They're about cherishing your journey together and keeping the romance alive every day.

“Are you cold? Do you need me to come over to warm you up?”
“Can you give me five reasons why I am the best husband?”
“Can you explain why a goddess like you decided to marry a guy like me?”
“Are you aware just how lucky of a guy I am?”
“Did you know that I don’t stop thinking about you even when I leave for work?”
“What’s for dessert after dinner?”
“Would you like some dessert after our dinner tonight?”
“What are you wearing under those?”
“Can I find out what’s under those clothes?”
“Do you know that you still make my heart skip a beat as the first day we met?”
“Did I ever tell you that I knew I was going to marry you the first time I saw you?”
“Do you regret that a 10 like you married an average guy like me?”
“You, me, and a date night like when we first started dating, are you in?”
“Do you still remember our first kiss?”
“Can you tell me the story of our first date night?”
“What part of my body do you love the most?”
"What about me turns you on the most?”
“What’s something I can do right now to make you laugh?”
“Are you still sure about me?”
“What activity we can both try and we’ll both suck at it?”

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Tips on How to Ask Deep Flirty Questions That Can Make a Girl Laugh

This list of flirty questions above can be very effective at making your crush/girl laugh, but, it’s also important how you deliver these questions.

So, here are some tips on how you can ask deep flirty questions that can make a girl laugh.

Be Authentic

While our list of flirty questions can be useful, the best question you can ask is the one you come up with. So, try to build a flirty question that is somehow related to your or her interests.

Be An Active Listener

There is no such thing as the “best flirty question”. Everyone is different, so the best way to make your girl laugh is if you’re an active listener. The more you listen, the more information you will have to ask her flirty questions and make her laugh.

Keep It Playful

To make her laugh, you can follow up your questions with emojis or something funny to lighten the mood.

If you can’t figure out what to say, you could use our Chat Assistant services.

Conclusion

With these tips on how to ask flirty questions to make her laugh and the list of the best flirty questions, we hope that you will have success in making your crush laugh.

Just remember to relax, and stay confident, and you will likely get your girl. If you’re trying your luck online, consider using our YourMove Dating Assistant app to help you boost your flirting skills.

Or, if you want to do it on your own, you can always consult our blog for more tips!

FAQs

How do I know if my flirty questions made her laugh?

Don’t worry, if you didn’t get a “hahaha” reply that doesn’t mean she didn’t laugh. The best way to see if you made her laugh is if she keeps the conversation going. So, if you notice she’s actively talking with you, then your flirty question was probably effective.

Can I use flirty questions on online dating apps?

Yes, you absolutely can and should use these types of flirty questions on dating apps. However, we suggest ensuring that your profile is optimized beforehand which you can do with our Profile Review service.

What to avoid when asking flirty questions?

When asking a flirty question there are a couple of things you should avoid. First, always avoid being disrespectful and respect the girl’s boundaries. Second, avoid using any controversial topics. And finally, avoid mentioning your ex or any of your other previous flings unless she asks directly.